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You have a choice right now. It's about your perspective and your sense of empowerment.

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The questions come out of pain and disastisfaction, and from situations that cry out for change. However, these questions all assume that the solution will be arrived at when other people change.

This is the same problem I face with couples doing marriage therapy. We almost always have to go through several sessions of the "Blame Game" before we can get down to business. It's "he said" and "she said" ad nauseum. She says he should change, and he says she should change.

But finally, we start to break through to a key question Wholesale Florida State Seminoles Jerseys , "If your partner doesn't change, what will YOU do, how will YOU think, and how will YOU take charge of yourself from here on?"

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If the leave taking actually happens then we have a much more serious problem going on with your relationship and simple "self-help" is not going to fix the problem. Professional counseling is required.

Another fear is that you don't know what good self-care is and that you will make a mistake, creating unnecessary problems and pain.

If this is true for you, then educate yourself about it. And then, trust your sense for what is respectful treatment of others and treat yourself the same way. It's really not so complicated.

(And finally, feeling guilty about self-care sabotages this whole thing over and over. We think we are being "selfish" rather than practicing self-care. I'm not going to try to cover this one today. It will take another whole article to address. Let me just say that this argument against self-care doesn't hold up too well.)

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This can work for you, too. YOU are the problem. Not that other person. The sooner you accept your responsibility to treat yourself well regardless of what the other does the sooner you might have a chance of the other person actually changing.

You get to be responsible for you, not for your partner. You get to make the choices for how you will behave, not how the other behaves. You get to perceive this as a choice of empowerment... Or you can see it as just another sign of what you can't do. The choice is up to you...

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